Call for Participation

How can I help? How can I take part?
What do you need? What can we give you?

Many roads lead to this page, but however you here, we have one message for you:

We want YOU!!!!!! …to participate in any way would bring you the most joy!

Our greatest goal—besides, you know, actually getting married at some point—is for everyone to join this community in whatever way they can, and for as many of you to get to know as many of you as possible.

That’s why we are giving you SOOOOOOO MANY WAYS to PARTICIPATE! 

In fact, many of you are helping us already—musicians, logistics team, butt-kickers and cheerleaders. So if you feel that you have already done your part, you are probably right! THANKS!!!

IF (and only if) you feel moved and joyful about the prospect of taking part: It’s not hard, and it’s not too late! And it is definitely something we’ll appreciate!!! Here are a few suggestions!

• Threads: We value people, ideas and stories above all. Find a way to showcase you, your identity, your culture(s), your expertise, your grace—whatever thread you want to contribute to our community tapestry (literal or metaphorical!).
• Food: A potluck wedding? Not quite, but you can still bring something to the table. If food is your language of love, we welcome all forms of gastronomic participation.
  • We welcome any human/robot-appropriate food contributions to our post-ceremony revelry, savory or sweet (inspired in part by the cookie table tradition).
  • Finger food will be easier to manage (i.e. edible using, not made of—please, no human parts to be consumed).

THANKS!!